Here are some of the top annoying behaviours seen by staff at your Doctor’s office:
1. Try to get a diagnosis or treatment information from the administrative staff.
Unless you are speaking to a nurse or the doctor, the rest of the staff specialize in scheduling, billing, insurance or other administrative duties and are not medically trained. We are trained to ascertain enough information from the patients to give the medical staff enough information to know what to expect from the patient and point them in the right direction. We can’t tell you what your symptoms mean, and will point you to the doctor, so don’t quiz us about what could be wrong with you, simply make an appointment.
2. Behaving badly in the lobby.
Unless signs are posted, we don’t mind if you talk quietly on your cell phone while you wait, but keep it down, and don’t discuss anything private, like having a conference call with your boss on why nude pictures of your ex-boyfriend were on your work computer. Also, put the cell phone away when the staff is trying to communicate with you, or you are in the actual appointment. Don’t leave a mess in the lobby. The staff would rather have you hand it to them then leave your trash in the waiting area. Don’t make ridiculous requests for beverages, or newer magazines. What is available is out for you to see.
3. Be picky about scheduling your appointment.
Every medical office has strict guidelines for times and lengths for appointment scheduling. Within those guidelines, patients are generally scheduled on a first come-first serve basis, with the exception of patients who have an emergency symptom or problem. They are squeezed in among other patients. Telling the staff that you can only have an appointment on the third thursday of the month between 1:00 and 3:00 p.m., will not get you anywhere. Neither will telling the staff you must get in this week, when they tell you the first opening is three weeks from now.
4. Not respecting the doctor and medical staff’s time.
Every office has a cancellation/tardiness policy. Read it and follow it. If you need to cancel your appointment, do it 24 hours in advance. If you show up more than ten minutes late for your appointment, expect to have to wait. If you no-show for your appointment, do not call back and expect to get in within the week, just because you couldn’t make it. Just like any other patient, you will be offered the first opening available. Don’t expect a call about a cancellation to try and get in sooner than the first available opening. We don’t have time to try and fill cancellations. That time just provides a much needed break, or time to complete extra tasks that we normally don’t have time to get to. If you no-show or are late a few times to your appointments, expect to earn yourself a “bad patient” reputation. The staff knows your behaviour, so we won’t make it easy for you to get back in to the doctor.
5. Forget to bring basic identification or payment.
It floors me how many times patients come in to the doctor’s office, especially for first time visits, and do not have a driver’s license, insurance card or form of payment. It is necessary to have these with you, and if you don’t we may not be able to see you, and might turn you away.
Tips on being a good patient:
Try to have a friendly relationship with the doctor, and be friendly to the staff. Show up on time for your appointments, and don’t make unreasonable demands. Follow the established flow of paperwork and billing. If you are friendly and curteous, we want to try and accomodate your needs, such as calling you when an appointment opens up that you may prefer, or giving you prescription samples or other perks.
Here is an example of a bad patient:
I heard of a patient who insisted that the doctor usually fit her in within one or two days for an appointment. She did not have an emergency. First of all, doctors knows nothing of the scheduling, other than a copy of the patient schedule he/she is given each day to follow. The patient finally showed up to her appointment after several instances of not showing up or cancelling with less than 24 hours notice, with excuses such as over-sleeping or feeling a bad omen about visiting medical offices on certain days. After stunts like that, it is normal to make the patient wait a week or so. When the patient did come to her appointment, she was impatient about being seen quickly. The patient also failed to adhere to follow-up appointment protocols, and even once put staff on hold while ordering coffee. Lesson: be friendly, curteous and show up to your appointments.